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Am I gender-fluid or something else?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by FlashLotus, Jul 24, 2015.

  1. FlashLotus

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    I am a female but I think I am gender-fluid and I want a second opinion.
    I have always been a tomboy (the extent that the dress I have worn since I was 8 is my prom dress :lol:slight_smile:. Well sometimes I not feel like any gender, while sometimes I feel very famine while other times I feel quite masculine.
    In some lessons I prefer staying with the boys in the class because I find the girls really cheesy and tacky. Also my trans friend asked me if I'm trans as well but I don't feel like him.

    If any help like binders and clothing would be brilliant. Don't worry about names because I find Lotus to be a unisex name that I like.
     
  2. Invidia

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    You sound like you can definitely be genderfluid to me :slight_smile:

    Baggy clothes can be a help for FtM/enby AFABs who want to look more male or androgynous.

    Also, have you thought of pronouns? Are you comfortable with she/her or would you prefer gender neutral pronouns?
    If you're not sure, you can try out gender neutral pronouns and see how they feel - maybe with your trans friend and/or on here :slight_smile:

    And Lotus is an awesomely beautiful name btw! :3
     
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  3. FlashLotus

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    Thanks!:slight_smile::slight_smile:
    I might try the pronouns them/their and they because I find things like Xe or Zie to be very clunky and awkward.