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Does this make me gender questioning?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by crystallight268, Jul 25, 2015.

  1. crystallight268

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    To be honest I really don't like my breast. I feel as thought they get in the way of me being myself. I've always wanted to be the boy in a relationship with my girlfriend(if I ever get one lol) and I feel as though I can't achieve that if I have breast. I know that surgery costs a lot of money and I have to be a certain age but I really don't want them anymore. My question is does this make me gender questioning or do I just don't like them?
     
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    I can totally relate. I want to be the guy in the relationship so much. I want to be the one holding the girl's waist and grabbing her hand and kissing her. Though, I am comfortable with my female body. As for your situation, I'm thinking that you are questioning. Have you ever had fantasies of you being in a guy body? If you have, you most likely are transsexual. I understand your confusion very well, I'm having the same question. Try using male pronouns, just to see if you are comfortable with it. Experimenting will probably help your case a lot. Don't worry, you're not alone. I hope this helped!
     
  3. crystallight268

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    I can't remember if I ever had a fantasy about me being a guy. People already call me by male pronouns sometimes because they think I'm a boy. It doesn't bother me if its on accident but if it's on purpose then yeah it does. I've been bullied before for being called by male pronouns and I'm worried that I might go through that again.