1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Someone please help me

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Fairyglitter, Jul 25, 2015.

  1. Fairyglitter

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2015
    Messages:
    38
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New York
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Out Status:
    Some people
    When I say "I am a girl" I feel trapped. When I say "I am a boy" nobody is entirely convinced, including myself. When I say "I am genderqueer" it makes me feel special, but i don't know if it's me. I am not sure who i am. It's stressing me out. I've been experiencing some social dysphoria, especially when strangers call me honey or princess. When I wore boy clothes, I felt great. I've always wanted to be a boy, but I don't wanna give up the biologically born female I am. The term I come closest to is genderfluid, but the people who know me practically better than I do say that I am just confused. What if I am? What if I am doomed and should learn to embrace my feminine side :tears: I don't know what to do.
     
  2. queermeerkat

    queermeerkat Guest

    Joined:
    Jul 21, 2015
    Messages:
    98
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Oklahoma
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Society's views on trans/nb/fluid folk is probably influencing what others will tell you. Ever heard of Bigender or something Non-Binary?
     
  3. Fairyglitter

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2015
    Messages:
    38
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New York
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Problem is, my love for lgbtq+ people might be influencing me. I don't know if I'm being true to myself.