Being The Ultimate Boy (Passing Tips Please??)

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Hey Chase! I'll try to help out in any way that I can.

In my experience, I never really noticed a difference in how cis guys walk. A tip I was given from other people is to focus on the mannerisms of other people in public, like lowkey watch how other guys walk or carry themselves. I used to do that, but now not so much.

With packing, socks are great in a pinch if you have little to no cash. To make sure you don't have any mishaps, tight underwear helps or safety pinning it in place. If you look up packing videos on Youtube, you can find a lot on making a sock packer. I'll include a link to Hudson's Guide somewhere on how to pack and different methods you can try. With realism, try to avoid using the thickest socks you have, since over compensating will make you look like you have a party in your pants. There's also a "gak" method where you fill condoms up with some kind of gel or "gak" like hair gel. I can also provide a video on that if you'd like, and Hudson's Guide shows a how-to on doing that.

Hudson's Guide: Packing

With voice tips, there's something on Youtube called "Boom Your Voice", which helps you learn how to get into lower registers with time and practice. Another person said as a pro-tip for talking in a lower range is to try speaking from your chest instead of your head; which sounds really challenging, but you'll get the hang of it with practice. You might have more of an advantage if you have experience with singing or theater, and it's not impossible.

 

For packing, here's a few videos I've been able to find:

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With voice stuff, here's the one video I was talking about. Just be careful with putting too much stress on your vocal cords to avoid hurting yourself:

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Singing lessons, or at least a self-disciplined regular routine if you know what you're doing. Because mere talking is ad hoc, it puts you on the spot with a lot of pressure to get it right the first time. When I speak to strangers or on the phone, I find that my voice gets a lot higher than usual because of the stress, which is the opposite of the effect you want. So I'm guessing you'll want a lot of practise in a low-stress environment, so you have the confidence in knowing that you're prepared.

Ask to extend your contralto range, if you choose to go that route and your teacher asks.

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I think of masculine walking like it's following a pair of tank tracks. So your left foot makes footprints on the left, and it always stays on that side, and vice versa. Exaggerated swagger is unnecessary. When standing, you don't want you feet touching, you'll want a gap of around 2-3 footprints. I've seen people do exaggerated masculine-style mannerisms and it's like, dude you're overdoing it, just sit back and relax.

 

Before I went on T, I lowered my voice range a lot by singing. I would sing the male vocals, and over time extended my range this way. I also agree with talking from your chest. When walking, the main thing that you need to avoid is swinging your hips. That will instantly make you look more feminine.

 

Kids can be so mean sometimes, I swear. If people give you hell, report it to a teacher or tell a friend so they can look out for you. I'm sure you're going to have a lot on your plate with school, and idiotic bullies are the last thing you have to worry about.

 

One thing about the walk that helped me, some-- I was trained when I hit puberty to basically stick out my but, curve my spine, and should my shoulders back (along with "put one fit directly in front of the other, to play up your assets"). Besides being an extremely feminine-looking walk, it's kind of painful! To even out your posture, spread your gait, and generally look more dudely, rotate your pelvis under. Basically, pull your butt in instead of pushing it out. It gives a wider and more comfortable step, and makes the silhouette and posture a lot more masculine. Don't be alarmed if you naturally start walking a little more duck-footed--a lot of men do.

Again, this worked for me, but if you find it painful or anything, by all means, don't do it!!

 

Umm in don't want to offend anyone but there is a huge difference in the way girls and guys walk. Allowing you straight and not deliberately trying to change it guys walk like they don't give a fuck and want everyone to know it. They force you to bp into them or get out of the way. Girls tend to be more considerate and walk ready to move and allow people to pass. I don't k ow if its culture or what but in America if you pay attention that's what you can see as a whole