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Questioning my identity

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by AgnisFlame, Aug 11, 2015.

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  1. AgnisFlame

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    So I have known that I'm Trans since the summer before 9th grade but lately things have changed I have started feeling and acting less like a boy and more like a girl, and there's this guy he's like my best friend and I really like him and he just makes me WANT to be a girl and it really confuses me because I now wonder if I really am Trans or if I'm just a tomboy. Help please
     
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    How have things changed?

    Try to think outside of romantic relationships. Do you still feel like you "want to be a girl"?
     
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    Yes but it all started when I went back to school and
    saw him again
     
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  5. AgnisFlame

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    ---------- Post added 11th Aug 2015 at 05:20 PM ----------

    I don't feel like that really matches me either
     
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    Honestly, you could possibly still be a male, or you may have been female all along. There's no definite way to be either.

    Another option here is that you might be genderfluid. Have you considered this?
     
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    Yes I do think genderfluid certainly feels a better fit than anything else. I also decided to start going by Lee because I thought about this.
     
    #7 AgnisFlame, Aug 12, 2015
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