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Is this normal?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Closet Shut, Aug 14, 2015.

  1. Closet Shut

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    I find myself on occasion attracted to straight guys, even though I know that's a big no-no & I don't mean just a bit of some personality traits, not that gay or bi guys couldn't possess those.. but this is more physical attraction, I notice well at least to me.. that I end up seeing more of the people I'm physically attracted to in straight men, maybe it's nothing. I do find some gay & bi guys attractive, & who knows maybe it's because most of the people one comes across are straight; I dunno, but I've noticed that I've seen quite a number of physical & mental traits I find attractive in straight guys, but if I try to look for.. in a bi or gay guy, I don't see it that much, but who knows.. maybe I don't know what I'm talking about, anyways send me your feedback:slight_smile: I'd love to hear it.
     
  2. Kodo

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    Well to be fair, there is a considerably larger population of straight men than of gay/bi men. It may just be that the individuals that come to your mind (who you're attracted to) happen to be the straight ones and if there were just as many gay/bi men then you'd probably cut even between the two. I don't think there's any "special factor" of a mental or physical degree that differs between gay or straight men, other than the obvious sexual attraction difference.

    I think it depends on the individual in question. I'm sure there are gay/bi men out there who possess those qualities that you admire, you just have to look harder, because there are less of them.

    I mean, have you seen Matt Bomer?
     
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