So i recently got girls underwear but it can be dysphoric at time wearing them because i still have male genitalia, here is a question i have: i know how to make a homemade gaff and am wondering if that is my best bet since i live with parents who dismissed my gender and put me back in the closet i can't shave down there.
Well, from my experience with homemade gaffs, you don't need to shave at all. Shaving may help, but its not necessary. Tuck everything back, pull the gaff up and make sure everything is secure. Also, I suppose you could hypothetically shave down there, as I assume your parents aren't checking....
