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help please, im scared and confused

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by mrs mister, Sep 28, 2015.

  1. mrs mister

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    Most of my life i have identified as female. But now I'm not sure.

    I might be gender fluid? Maby? Its like... My mind and my 'privates' don't agree and are confused as hell.

    My minds tell in me no.

    But my body! MY BODYYY'S TELLIN ME YEESSSS!!!!!

    so yeah, I don't know what to do. I'm more upset than I'm letting on.

    Sorry and thank you, (&&&):eusa_danc
     
  2. Biker boy

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    Well its OK your luckier then most I think you should live each day the way you feel their too many labels out why get stressed over a label and just be who you want to be even if its just day by day have fun be happy if anything I hope I could make you smile
     
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    Thank you. Very much. :icon_redf
     
  4. gamergirl99

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    You need a hug so here's one.. (*hug*)

    You'll be okay. Sometimes, these things take a long time to figure out. Make sure what you decide is something that you're okay with, but remember this..

    If you feel like a female, that's okay!
    If you feel like a male instead, that's also okay.

    Both? Perfectly fine.

    As long as you're happy with the gender you feel like you identify as, there's no reason to be scared. You have all the time to think about it and it will be okay.

    Just believe and listen to your heart and what you feel.

    I listened to my heart and I know and I feel like I was meant to be gay.

    It tells no lies and you can do this. Just smile and be proud of who you are.

    (*hug*)

    I have a transgender friend and he feels like himself after identifying as transgender and after coming out to me. He was fully comfortable and you can be too. ^_^
     
    #4 gamergirl99, Oct 2, 2015
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