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Male and female sides don't seem to be compatible

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Alisa Arwen, Oct 3, 2015.

  1. Alisa Arwen

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    Just a bit of a vent...the sides of me that seem male/masculine or female/feminine don't seem entirely compatible and almost seem to be determined to lead me in a different direction...
     
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    I think I get what you mean, at one point I felt like I had a male response to things and also a female response.. Them being different responses/choices, deciding on anything can be hard?
     
  3. Alisa Arwen

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    In a way. My female side wants to express itself more, my male side doesn't wish it to.
     
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    Is it that your guy side doesn't want to be associated with your girl side? Could try doing something like, only unleashing your girl in a few select areas, and not showing off your guy side there.

    Or just.. your guy side feels like your girl side shouldn't exist?
     
  5. Alisa Arwen

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    It's both ...varies with time.
     
  6. Alisa Arwen

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    I have some mental health issues anyway. So happiness and contentment is elusive.
     
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    How can I want to be Melody and also *insert male name*??