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It's decided.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Natasha Elyssa, Oct 13, 2015.

  1. Natasha Elyssa

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    I talked to my sister again tonight. I told her that I was thinking of coming out, and that I want to start my transition no later than next year. We now have a plan: I'm going to write a painfully detailed coming out letter describing my position with facts to back myself up, I'm going to give it to my sister to give to my mom when my dads not home, and I'm going to "go for a walk" as my sister tries to reason with my mom and I'll come back and talk to her when my sister says to. My main goal is to go after my mom, because my dad is trouble. If I can talk to my mom, I hope that I can get hormones and voice therapy and stuff. Natasha Elyssa may come sooner than I expected. I'm tired of hiding, and running from myself and the possible negative outcomes. I am Natasha Elyssa Caprice [last name withheld] and I am a strong, beautiful, and courageous woman. I, for the first time since I was 13, feel confident in expressing my gender publicly. And I say BRING IT ON! I'm ready for the hate, sorrow, and most importantly, my transition into womanhood. I will keep you all posted. Maybe by next month. I want to be free, and I can't do that if I let fear and other people control me. I AM NATASHA, not (god I hate it) Timothy! I am a lesbian WOMAN and I will not be silenced and I will not let them control me! <3 :icon_redf :eusa_danc :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride::newcolor::newcolor::newcolor::newcolor:
     
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    I wish you all the best Natasha :slight_smile: that's a very brave step for you. I hope that everything goes well (*hug*) You're sister sounds super supportive^^
     
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    That is amazing :slight_smile: You really are strong, Natasha. I hope your plan goes perfectly and I wish you the best of luck!
     
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    Thank you, both of you! :slight_smile: <3
     
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    Go for it!!!:thumbsup::thumbsup:
     
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    Good luck, I hope coming out goes well for you! :icon_bigg
     
  7. Natasha Elyssa

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    Thank you guys! :slight_smile: ^-^ <3
     
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    Knock 'em dead.
     
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    Best of luck to you ^^
     
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    So happy for you! Best of luck!
     
  11. Natasha Elyssa

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    Thanks! ^-^ <3
     
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    Be sure to tell us how it goes :slight_smile::thumbsup:
     
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    Good luck Girl! Glad you have someone there to help support you.
     
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    Awesome. You go, girl!

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    Thank you! :slight_smile: ^-^ <3 <3