I've been thinking a whole lot about gender lately or my lack of one. i don't really feel any strong ties to being a female or a male. While I'm not repulsed by my breasts, i can't say I like them either or have any preference. I've always just thought of myself as a being not a gender. Could someone who identifies as agender please share any experiences they've had or any thoughts on how you knew?
That was me for a long time. I never really thought much about it. I was simply who I was, had the bits I had, was attracted to what I was attracted to and that was it. The fact that I was outwardly female had little to do with it. I was just me. Now, I can recognize that I was having fluid moments and attributed the anxiety they caused to other factors. I can appreciate the times when I feel male but I still feel neutral or agender a good bit of the time. It's a rare occasion I actually feel female. As far as breasts, I've never felt particularly attached to mine. I like when they are noticed and appreciated by other people, but personally I feel kinda "meh" about them. I hope this was helpful. I'm excessively tired and trying to get rid of a headache. :tears::sleep:
Remember you are the only person that can decide your identity. But if you do decide you're agender, welcome to the club! We have cookies.
