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Slipping out of the closet... like a ninja.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Smoony, Nov 4, 2015.

  1. Smoony

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    I walked to the supermarket today, utilizing my feminine body language. I was clean shaven, long hair, a t-shirt that clung to my curvy torso in the wind. I was myself. I felt wonderful. I walked the sides of an invisible line stretched before me, my hips loosened... my whole body flowing.

    Hundreds of vehicles passed me by. The sense I got from them, overall, was curiosity. I have features leaning toward masculine, but I can change them to womanly with a slight switch of my facial muscles, my expression, the look in my eyes. I've practiced around the house and in front of the mirror for months. Coming out online to people helped immensely in my sneaky real life exit from the closet. I'm more comfortable with the idea of being womanly in front of people who would expect me to be masculine.

    I'm going to dress in tighter clothing next time. Little by little... bit by bit... day by day...

    Coming out of the closet doesn't have to be a big event. You can be a ninja about it. They'll remember back a long time ago when you were a male persona... and look at you now... and realize it's too late. You are a female.
     
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    That's what I did too. Congratulations!
     
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    Yay! (*hug*)

    Some day I will follow your example and become a girl ninja! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    I started that way, but one day went all "fuck it I'm doing this".

    Never looked back.
     
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    Smart move! Thanks!

    *Hugs* I look forward to hearing about that day, Yaeli! ^_^

    You were brave to take that plunge! Awesome.
     
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    So proud of all of you :slight_smile: