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Help Me Find My Identity?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Beck, Dec 1, 2015.

  1. Beck

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    Gender:
    Genderqueer
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    I was born with female parts, but I'm getting confused about my own body. When I turned fifteen, I realized I didn't care who I went out with. Coming out as pansexual was hard, but my family was thankfully accepting.

    I have a genderqueer friend, and when I told my family about them, with permission of course, they had a negative reaction. "So she wants to be a man, but keep her tits and date boys?" "No mom, they don't want breasts. They want to gave people call them by gender neutral terms." "So she wants to be a boy, but doesn't want a penis?" "No, dad. They would rather be called by masculine pronouns if you don't want to call them "them".

    As you can probably tell, I can't discuss this with my family. I don't know what to do. I want to be a boy. I want to be a girl. I mostly am leaning towards my male identity these days. When I'm a boy, I call myself Beckett, or Beck for short.

    I know I'm rambling, I just don't know what to do. I don't know how to cope with myself right now. I don't even know what I feel is called. Please help me if you can.
     
  2. baconpox

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    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
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    Out to everyone
    You could be a trans boy with highly fluctuating dysphoria or genderfluid?
     
  3. Beck

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    I think it may be genderfluid, but even though I have boy and girl days, I can't tell my parents ever