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What am I...?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by PastelPancake, Dec 27, 2015.

  1. PastelPancake

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    Hi! I'm a bisexual AFAB person.

    I don't feel strongly connected to female qualities. I'm really "meh" about gender to be honest. I believe in equal rights for male and females and hate "gender roles" but everything stops there. I feel only a slight connection to feminity. I'm just really casual and chill about it all. I like wearing dresses and having long hair. Is this normal female stuff...?
     
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    That sounds a lot like genderfluidity, i would look that up and see if you fit it.
     
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    Could possibly be agender. Or, just feeling meh towards femininity. That's cool, too. How do you feel about your body?
     
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    Thanks guys! I feel pretty meh about my body. I don't know if I'm just lazy and don't care or I'm agender/genderfluid. I know about genderfluid because my best friend is but... I don't know. I don't feel their dysphoria.
     
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    Sounds pretty "normal" to me. I don't think it's unusual at all for cis people (particularly women (because socially, gender exists to be oppressive to women, of course they want to escape it)) to not feel strongly about gender. Femininity has nothing to do with gender. It sounds to me like everything you've described is perfectly usual for cis women to experience.
     
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    Yes, I agree completely with darkcomesoon^. Your feelings don't sound to me like they're anything out of the ordinary (dysphoric). Many cis women feel like you.
     
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    What? Why?





    It sounds a lot like how a lot of my cis friends describe their gender and my wife (basically agender/demigirl) does the SAME thing. It might really not be anything to worry about.