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Agender?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by PastelPancake, Jan 1, 2016.

  1. PastelPancake

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    Hi hi hi. I am very stuck and would appreciate some help.

    I'm a assigned female. I dress feminine and look feminine but I feel empty when it comes to gender. I literally feel like I don't connect with the idea of gender. My best friend has even suspected I was non binary.

    I'm also bisexual but I'm attracted to mainly masculine looking people. I am attracted to trans girls or feminine females but it's more likely for me to have a crush masculine girls, masculine guys, trans guys, gender fluid people or any other masculine or androgyne people.

    So now I'm confused. I think I'm agender? But present female? And preference masculine people no matter what gender?
     
  2. Secrets5

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    Hello,

    Gender and sexuality are not connected. For example, If you were assigned male and were straight, then realized that you were transfemale, then you would be a gay woman [and not a straight woman].

    Gender and expression are also not connected. It doesn't matter if you are cis, trans male or female, or non-binary. You can be a feminine man or a feminine woman or a feminine non-binary. Same for masculine.

    Hope this helps.
     
    #2 Secrets5, Jan 2, 2016
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