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Having gay male fantasies, but being a cis female

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Vav, Jan 2, 2016.

  1. Vav

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    I identify as a cis female, but I sometimes fantasize about having gay male sex as a man. I've tried thinking of having straight sex as a man, but that didn't do anything for me. Is anyone else like this?
     
  2. Lacybi

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    Yep, me too. However I'm not cis but I don't want to transition or go on hormones so I guess we're about even. Mine started when I started reading fanfiction obsessively.
     
  3. WhereWeWere

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    It could possibly be a sign, though everyone is different. I know fantasies/dreams at night were some of the few things that made me realize I was trans.
     
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    You mostly like women but fantasize about gay male sex, right? It's probably just a fantasy. If this were a sign of something gender identity related, it would be unusual to have a preference for women but not be interested in having sex with a woman as a man.

    I've definitely heard of people with similar fantasies.
     
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    It could be just a sexual fantasy that just require a penis and not actually being a man