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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Jhon1, Feb 15, 2016.

  1. Jhon1

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    Can a man grow up gay but actually be straight
     
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    What do you mean by this? Like a guy identifying as gay in childhood/teenage years, but then coming to realize he's straight as an adult?
     
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    I mean... If a straight guy can grow up to realize he's gay, then yeah, the opposite can happen. It's probably unlikely, but I'm sure it can happen.
     
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    Thanks its just I was panacing about myself and questioning myself because I like men and I want to be with one but then I was thinking what if its a lie
     
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    Of course it could happen, but if you like men, you like men. If you like women, too, then you could be bisexual, but I doubt you're straight if you like men.
     
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    Yeah I like men I'm attracted to men but women don't do anything for me but I had thoughts about women and then I was questioning what I'd I'm not gay but I like men and I want to be with men so are these thoughts just thoughts
     
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    It's probably anxiety, to be honest. What kinds of thoughts about women?
     
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    Sexual and I don't like it
     
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    If you don't like it, it's probably not sexual attraction. I doubt you're bisexual. Besides, even if you are bisexual, that's OK. You're still you and that's all that matters.
     
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    Thank you great convosation
     
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    (*hug*) No problem. I'm glad I could help.