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Still confused

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by WhoAm I, Feb 21, 2016.

  1. WhoAm I

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    So a while ago I posted a thread about being transgender. I still identify as trans, but after transition I'm not sure if I want male pronouns. Female pronouns make me uncomfortable, but male ones make me feel weird somehow too.
    I've researched different terms and came across "neutrois/agender". I'm wondering, is it weird to want to transition but still be gender neutral?

    On another not does anyone know where to get cheap but good binders? I don't have much money but I would like to know for future reference. I also would like to have more masculine clothing but I haven't come out to my mom yet (I think she might be transphobic and I don't really see it wise to find out the hard way) so... any suggestions? Thanks :slight_smile:

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    It won't let me edit my post for some reason but I've also been experiencing pain when I press down slightly on my breasts. I'm thinking I bruised them as I binded with sports bras and rode some rides at an amusement park that tossed me around. Not the best idea. It's been a week since then however. Should I be worried?
     
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  2. Kiran

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    I'm waiting for my gc2b binder to arrive (around 50$ with shipment).

    My mum who doesn't know either and is constantly nagging at me not being feminine etc. is lately so pleased with my recent shopping. Got male glasses - looks great. Jeans - she didn't even notice. Male winter boots - no comment. Male sneakers - she likes this. Male t-shirt - no comment at all. No comments are great. I'm gonna buy more.

    As for the pain, maybe it's wide to go and see a doctor if it's for a week already.
     
  3. WhoAm I

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    Thanks for the response! I've been looking into gc2b recently and they seem good. Recently my mom bought me men's shorts and I always wear large shirts. I refuse to wear any feminine clothes I own but my mom just thinks that's my style.

    The pain has actually died down a little bit so I'm not too worried about it anymore. I've started moderately binding but still being careful of them.