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Help with my gender?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Rowe, Feb 22, 2016.

  1. Rowe

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    I asked a few other times on other websites, but nobody was really helpful. I don't know if I'm genderfluid, agender, genderflux, something else, or just male. I just don't really care what pronouns people use for me, and I would wear clothes for any gender. But, I would usually say I'm male if asked, but I don't really identify as male. I don't really know what I am. My profile says genderfluid, but I don't really know if that applies or not. Can anyone help?
     
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    Hello,

    Nobody but yourself can indefinitely answer the question of your gender; but perhaps you could put some reasons as to why you feel X gender and then people may be able to help you figure it out.
     
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    I know only I can define who I am, but I just need some idea on what I could be. I don't really know why I feel these ways. I'm definitely gender-nonconforming. I hate gender stereotypes. But because of that reason, I don't really feel male. But I don't feel female either for a similar reason. I actually don't really feel like anything, but I don't feel like nothing. I'm thinking of just testing certain identities online just to see how I feel about them, and the one I feel most comfortable with, I can use that identity. But, I'm just looking for some idea.
     
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    Here's a good site of all the possibilities (note, more may exist than these, but it's a pretty good list): Comprehensive* List of LGBTQ+ Term Definitions
    I hope you can discover yourself. For me, I knew I wasn't female. I never felt like it. I never conformed to society. A few people have mistaken me for a man. But there is a female side of me, just not that obvious. And I'm not bigender because I have only one gender. I say just rule out what you aren't instead of what you are. It's a lot easier. Hope you find something that works for you :slight_smile:.