Heyyo - I just got my first binder and am planning on wearing it tomorrow at school, although I'm not out to anyone there. I'm not even sure what I am yet! I'm a bit worried about what people will think since my boobs will have just - disappeared. What will I say to people if they ask where my boobs went, since I'm not ready to come out? "Oh, yeah... They just flew off."
I'm gonna be honest with you. Most people probably aren't gonna notice. In the rare case that someone actually asks, you can just say that you're wearing a sports bra or something. Congrats on the binder by the way.
People might notice your breasts disappearing but honestly I seriously doubt anyone would come up to your face about it. Anyways, it's your body. You decide what to do with it, and if other people have a problem, it's their fault, not yours.
Some people might notice, but I don't think most people will actually ask about it unless people are always inspecting each other's bodies at your school. If someone does ask, just say that you're wearing a super sporty sports bra and that the shirt your wearing doesn't flatter your breasts.
I would suggest letting your body get used to it for a bit before wearing it to school. Otherwise, you might be in for some painful acclimation. It's best to wear it for a couple of hours at a time, then slowly work your way up to longer amounts of time.
Most of the curious eyes will be male, and trust me they won't dare to say a word... And if they do act annoyed. They don't have any right to make inventory of your body parts, tell them to watch their mother's... I agree with Brad, you shouldn't try anything new in a stressful situation, specially something that won't help much if you hyperventilate. You'll be fine. You are not the first, you won't be the last.
Yeah, I'm sure nobody's going to notice. I was binding throughout my junior year, and nobody suspected a thing. Try not to worry too much.