I was wondering how I date as a non-T non-op trans guy being fine with his body but not being fine with being treated like a girl?
I guess if you pass most of the time then you'd have the option of going stealth? Or tell them soon after meeting them so they won't (hopefully) treat you like a girl
I think I have the same issue. I guess I would like to know what you end up doing that validates you while still making everyone happy!!!
Just be up-front about your gender identity. There's not really any way to get around it, because you'll have to tell eventually. Just say that you're a boy and want to be treated as such. Don't date people who won't treat you like that.
