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Questioning.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by SimonSnow, Apr 18, 2016.

  1. SimonSnow

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    I've always been feminine. My close friends are almost exclusively female. I put flowers in my hair. In private with friends I wear makeup. I love high heels and dresses more than most of my friends do. When I was little I thought I could change my gender just like that, but nope. I will dye my hair blue this summer to show my disregard for male boundaries. I have no "masculine" interests whatsoever. Sometimes I feel like I would be the female in a straight relationship instead of one of two males, although it's usually two males. Am I just feminine? Is there a label I can use? I'm just confused. Thanks for any help, guys.
     
  2. Ghostling

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    I'd think about looking into demigenders (demigirl/demiboy) and seeing if they fit you! It's typically defined as feeling mostly boy/girl, but not ENTIRELY that gender.

    Maybe even agender (genderless)? or even a trans woman?

    But of course, it's okay to be a cis male and really like feminine things! Being feminine isn't necessarily indicative of gender, but at the same time it can't hurt to shop around for IDs!