So I'm so so so confused. i have come to terms with my sexuality but a couple months after i determined my sexuality i would look in the mirror and not like what i say (gender wise) and now I'm all messed up about gender and I'm confused idk what to do help.
Babe, been there - got the t-shirt and the bumper sticker. Ugh. (*hug*) What I can say is give yourself permission to be confused. It's ok. You don't have to have all the answers 100% of the time... AND the answers can change, weirdly enough. This isn't an exam, it's life. You'll figure it out, I promise. Treat it like trying on clothes... See what fits and if it doesn't, put it back on the rack. If it does and you feel good in it, keep it. (Sounds way easier writing it than it is in practice, but give it a shot as a mindset)
