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Keeping original middle name?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Rickystarr, Jun 24, 2016.

  1. Rickystarr

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    My middle name is Renee and I was originally planning on keeping it and just dropping an "e" to make it the masculine form "René". Now I'm considering changing it partly so I can actually choose part of my name myself. My mom pretty much gave me the name Patrick as she told me that would've been my name if I was born male. The other reason is that René still sounds quite feminine in English though I know it is a commin male name in France and Spain. I also think my Irish first name might sound a little out of place with a distinctly French middle name.

    Any thoughts? I actually think René is a cool name for a guy, but I don't want to set off any warning bells if I want to be stealth, plus my other concerns. If I did change it, I would probably use one of my runner up names: Louis, Thomas, Scott, Nathan, James, Edward

    ---------- Post added 24th Jun 2016 at 06:36 PM ----------

    Probably not Louis actually. I would like it as a first name though.
     
    #1 Rickystarr, Jun 24, 2016
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    Patrick Scott sounds pretty cool :grin:
     
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    I like Patrick Scott too. Also I don't think people would question if you had a feminine middle name with Patrick as I think they would think that you at the worst have crappy parents if they even think Rene sounds feminine.
     
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    If this helps, my last name is one syllable. I won't post it here though.

    ---------- Post added 24th Jun 2016 at 06:47 PM ----------

    Thanks, guys. I like Patrick Scott too.
     
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    Patrick Rene is absolutely fine. I like Louis or Nathan as second name.
     
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    Anything you choose will be fine. I don't think anyone's going to question your gender because your middle name sounds French. Patrick Scott or Patrick René, both sound great!
     
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    Patrick René Scott, perhaps?
     
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    Patrick Stewart! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Scott I like the most from your list. Rene is cool but I'm not sure if it's the best option in an English speaking environment, due to pronunciation.
     
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