So I stumbled upon this cool youtuber named Ashley Wylde. She actually started the gender tag, but I don't think a lot of people know about her. She has some really cool thoughts on gender and how to explore gender identity, as well as a lot of other cool things. Here's her channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/AshleysWyldeLife
I watched the intro video right now. It seems like a lot of really interesting exploration! I hope I have time to really get into it more!