All I know is that I'm a guy who has a very fem bod and looks way younger than I actually am. I like (some) womens clothing. I wouldn't fully dress in womens clothing just because I don't think that's me. I can accessorize with those items though. Part of me feels like I am way too old for this, and another part of me says do it while you still look good. I have very small fem breasts and I'm very slim. I like women, I love trans, I have watched gay porn but I like the fem trans more than anything. I have no idea how to dress myself, besides wearing some of my ex's things here and there. I just know what I look good in, and most of it happens to be from the womens section of the store. I feel like such a creep when I am at the store because I will skim along the outside of the womens aisle, looking and peeking at things that might look good on me. How bad I want to try them on. I feel like a creep just trying to explain it. I feel like some sort of experiment.
It's natural to feel that way when you most likely have been trained since birth to fit into a heteronormative lifestyle. Letting go of the perceived guilt is hard. There is nothing wrong with you. Do you want to harm others or commit crimes? If you say yes to those, you're a bad person. Gender expression and clothing choice harms no one and is your right as a person.