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looking more 'neutral' as curvy

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by 66vangirl, Jul 24, 2016.

  1. 66vangirl

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    Location:
    Denver
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
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    Not out at all
    I end up talking a lot about boob size, my are big. There are a lot of times I enjoy having this curvy body, when I was younger I got a lot of attention. However there are issues with this, I am a 34 DD+, I have to wear my only white button down with a camisole and not buttoned all the way since it gaps so much. Yesterday I realized I got food in my cleavage again.

    I don't hate my body, I never have and even though with age (I'm 50) and weight gain I still refuse to hate it. However I really love more neutral clothing. I wear a lot of jeans and casual clothes in my work, they can be neutral, but I really can't wear a men's shirt for fitting reasons.

    There is a company that makes clothes specifically for large boobs, I could spend a lot of money to get a nice button down that does not gap! I have been thinking about asking for that from my mom for my next birthday since she likes to buy clothes. However I am beyond tired of trying to explain that certain clothes simply do NOT fit when she sends me things. I may be small overall but need a large or XL shirt, oh yeah and all the women who think this is not a problem because of course men love big boobs so I must be getting attention I really don't want. If they are only interested in my chest then why would I be interested.