So I am with my family and extended family at a reunion, aunts uncles cousins, etc. normally these are finger togethers but as I am on the verge of coming out to my wife and my family will be (at some point next) I can't help but wonder what it would be like if I had already come out. Or if I had transitioned. And I can't do it. I can't imagine myself with my family after this. I'm sure some will be accepting but I know some will not. But even through I know for my own sanity I have to talk to my wife, the very idea seems like a death sentence. Any hope that this won't mean the end of everything?