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ways to pass?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by jake23, Aug 10, 2016.

  1. jake23

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    hey
    so i already bind and wear baggy shirts but i still hav a fear that something as simple as my backpack or a strap will show and give it away.most of the time i get called sir and mistaken for a guy but my voice gives it away.i try to practice speakin in a lower tone but out in public it comes out soft and its embarrassing for me :/
    what are some things that i can to build my confidence and things i can do to pass?
    and also does anybody use packers?
     
  2. Kal

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    I'm the same, I pass quite often. But my voice is a dead giveaway.
     
  3. jake23

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    yeah its sucks cuz you say something and they look so confused and then it just gets awkward
     
  4. Kal

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    I get it all the time when I walk my dog. People double take when I call him or tell him to sit.
     
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    I think bathrooms are the worst
     
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    If you're really concerned about the voice thing, I've heard good things about an app called Eva FTM. The app itself is free, but I think you have to pay for the actual voice training lessons. Might be something to look into if you're interested.

    Also, nice choice of avatar lol
     
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    i've got that app for my phone, the only thing with that is you have to pay for the lessons.
    i know i can raise my voice sometimes up, but i've got the double take from some people and not with others. depends what they are used to and are more open minded.