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Androgyne, bigender, or genderfluid?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Asexual Pirate, Aug 11, 2016.

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  1. Asexual Pirate

    Asexual Pirate
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    So I've recently been experimenting with different styles of clothing and have found that my personal style swings between dapper masculine and a vintage feminine. Over the course of pegging this fashion style down I've noticed that while my neutral state is usually a decided mix of male and female, I'm starting to swing to polar opposites. I love feeling dainty, pretty, and vulnerable (stuff I associate with being feminine). On the other hand, I love feeling strong, assertive, and handsome. Originally I thought I was more of an androgyne since I've always been a mix, but now that I'm expressing my identity more I'm wondering if I might be genderfluid or bigender. Any help or advice would be appreciated as I'm really confused and hate changing labels so frequently.
     
    #1 Asexual Pirate, Aug 11, 2016
  2. Shorthaul

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    If you like playing opposites, roll with it. A label is nothing but a word and only has meaning or power if you let it.


    Also I love your signature.
     
    #2 Shorthaul, Aug 12, 2016
  3. SkyWinter

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    I'm bigender. For me neither one gender is 100% all the time, which is confusing and leaves me feeling conflicted at times about my gender, and about whether I'm just delusional or not. Having said that I feel very similar to you. Sometimes I just flip and want to present as female, and other times not so much. It helps to already be sort of androgynous.
     
    #3 SkyWinter, Aug 12, 2016
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