Well, lately I have been seriously questioning my identity. Honestly I hate being a guy, but I'm not really into girl things either. I love girls clothes, but I could never imagine myself wearing them out into public. I am definitely into girls, but I think a lot of what is holding me back is simply fear of judgement. What do you guys think?
Why do you hate being a guy? Sexuality and gender identity do not link together Gender expression does not equal gender identity unless a) a child insists on playing/wearing things made for the opposite sex because they are of that gender b) a person of any age changes their gender expression with the purpose of being seen as their true gender identity. Fear of judgment is normal, but if this world didn't have judgment, what gender would you see yourself as? How would you feel about having she/her pronouns? And a female or gender-neutral name? How do you feel towards your current sex parts? And how would you feel with the female ones? Hope this helps.
Yeah, you don't have to wear girls clothes. Wear what you like. And liking girls is totally okay, too. Keep thinking and studying and learning. Like Secrets5 asks, why do you hate being a guy? I think that's the important thing. If it's because you're NOT a guy, then we're getting somewhere.
