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What can I classify as?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Come as You Are, Sep 26, 2016.

  1. Come as You Are

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    Hey guys, probably a common question here, but what am I?

    I'm completely straight in every way, the way I act, the things I like, and the activities I engage in. But, there is an exception. There is this single guy that I am deeply in love with. But not in the way that I would want to have sex with him, no sexual desires. Well, except for the fact that he gave me a hand. But he is the only guy that I look at with love in my eyes.

    I tried to watch gay porn to see if I would get aroused. I did not, I even got disgusted. I watch straight porn, the guy I love doesn't. I experimented and tried to looked at other guys. Nothing happened, I didn't get excited or anything. It was like looking at nothing. But the only really exception is him. I don't know. People say that it's either straight or gay. Need advice from you guys! :slight_smile:
     
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  2. oh my god I

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    Um you're in the wrong subforum... Sexuality and Romantic Orientation

    But my thought is just to be mindful of and accept these feelings. It doesn't really matter what you classify as it's how you feel. It probably doesn't mean your orientation is different but who knows, maybe you could be 1% bi. IMO most people's sexuality is a little more open than they would accept or admit because it's easier to view it in black and white.
     
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