At this point, I'm (usually) comfortable with the idea I'm genderqueer, but I need to explore it better. I don't really understand the details of who I am without trying things, talking to someone about it, etc. While this forum is great, I think I need to come out to my wife. We have trans friends, and she's perfectly accepting and supportive of them, but the stakes are higher here. I'm terrified she'll find it too weird to be married to someone who isn't entirely a guy. Anyone have ideas for ways to bring it up or test the waters? She's the one person in my life I NEED to accept me, so I have a lot of anxiety. :icon_sad: