My partner and I spent a happy couple of hours this weekend making a pronoun necklace for me to wear in safe spaces, so that I can experiment a bit with my pronouns in real life, but also so I can adjust them as appropriate. Does anyone else here wear pronoun jewellery?
I have a pronoun bracelet that I adore! People don't notice it too much, but it makes me feel cool and confident. Pronoun jewelry is the bomb
Not currently. I like the idea of it but I have yet to decide what I want to use. Right now I am not really out to many people so it would be weird if they were the only people using my pronouns. Also not sure if I want to use they/them/their all the time or switch between all three types of pronouns depending on what gender I am that day(aka She/her/hers, He/his/him, They/them/their).
I have a very subtle pronoun ring. It's a black silicone band with a groove in the middle and several colored bands that fit into the groove and give the ring a colored middle stripe. I'm fluid through a lot of genders so I like to have all those options to choose from so I can communicate a little more nuance. Spoiler I haven't told a lot of people what it means, only my significant other and a couple close friends. And even then I haven't really enforced it or corrected people, so right now it doesn't make a difference. When I get more confidence and start asking people to actually pay attention to it, the pronoun ring may someday do something. I still enjoy having it. It's more my style than other, flashier pronoun jewelry, and I can wear it even while working with my hands without fear of getting hurt by it in an accident. I also don't fancy the vulnerability of having my pronoun jewelry recognizable to less accepting human beings, so full words are a no-go for me. It's just honestly nice to recognize my own fluidity and to have a way to express how I'm feeling even if my gender presentation hasn't changed or isn't indicative.