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Soooo I've started seeing someone!

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kal, Dec 7, 2016.

  1. Kal

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    It's early days but she is besotted with me. And I'm bowled over by her. We've been talking about a month and had our first date on Sunday, which went really well. She sees me as a man, calls me Kal and uses male pronouns. She's never slipped up, not once.

    She puts her arm through my arm when we're walking and she sits on my lap, with her hands on the centre of my chest. She calls me handsome and dreamy. And she wanted to feel how big my arms are. She calls me her man and that she's a good woman that wants to look after her man. She's very sweet.

    I've moaned to her a lot about how frustrated I am. Told her how my body doesn't match my mind. How annoyed I am at how slow the other parties are in doing their jobs (clinics, GPs etc). She's heard it all. And she still looks at me with the biggest smile and says that she wants to support me.

    We haven't been intimate yet but it's almost like that doesn't matter. I guess I'm posting this because of two reasons:

    I didn't think anyone would find me attractive as a transman.
    That if I can find someone special, then anyone can.

    Tell me your success stories in love, I want to keep this feeling alive...
     
  2. Kodo

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    I am really happy to hear this, Kal. You have no idea.

    This is awesome news and I hope it works out for you two.
     
  3. baristajedi

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    I'm really happy for you! That's awesome!!
     
  4. Kal

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    Thanks man, I'm sensing that this could be something special.

    ---------- Post added 7th Dec 2016 at 11:19 AM ----------

    Cheers buddy
     
  5. BrookeVL

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    Good luck Kal! I think it's great that you found someone like that. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm not dating anyone, but I have been flirting with people who all respect me as a man, and of course that's not unusual- all of my family and friends respect me- yet it is weird having people I LIKE respect me, I guess... I dated a girl who at the time identified as a lesbian on and off, and then somebody who, while they respected my identity, thought I'd be okay with doing things that I definitely never will be okay doing. XD It was a huge turn off, but yeah, anyway, I am glad that these people respect me, and I try to respect them in return... <3 God, it feels good to feel happy and healthy for once. I haven't felt at peace for so long.
     
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    That's so awesome! Glad things are looking up for you.
     
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    way to go man.