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Gender Undefined

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by LaurenSkye, Jan 20, 2017.

  1. LaurenSkye

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    Location:
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    Gender:
    Female (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    All but family
    I have decided to change my gender to "Gender Undefined", because quite frankly, I'm not sure if any label quite fits me. While I was born a male, and still look very much like a man, I like to be pretty sometimes. I like to wear women's clothes (though my feminine wardrobe is very limited and it's very difficult to find clothes that fit me). I like to paint my nails pink and carry a purse. But on the other hand, I kind of like the way I look as a guy. I generally like the way I look with facial hair (although my beard sometimes looks sloppy and there are a few patches of gray). I also find MTF trans people unattractive (no offense to anyone here).

    I am attracted to both men and women. Sexually I prefer women, but as far as romance and relationships go, I prefer men. I am not sexually turned on by lesbians the way many straight men are. If I am watching porn, I would rather watch two guys going at it than two women. I feel a more emotional connection to lesbians, though. When I see a lesbian couple, I'd rather be good friends with them then in a three way with them. I cannot stand stereotypical gay men.

    I simply feel like there is no label can define me, and I'm fine with that.
     
  2. Crisalide

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    Location:
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    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Good ^.^
    I'm happy that you're fine with that.
    Sometimes not giving oneself a label is a wise thing.