I think I might be genderfluid, but I'm not sure.

Hi! You kind of sound like me, but if I were born a girl. One thing that really clued me into the fact that I was genderfluid was actually almost "feeling" more masculine when I am fine with being a dude and this sudden rush of femininity and a desire to crossdress when I feel more female. If you can identify almost two or more separate identities or views of the world then that is definitely a clue. Others though seem to post about how they feel like neither a boy nor a girl all the time. This then would be agender which I can't really relate with since I actually feel different genders.

 

Oh I deal with the same problem. I present as male all the time so when I do feel female, I kinda just pretend I'm a girl on the outside and it kinda works for me. I'm thinking in the future I'm just going to start having people refer me using the "they" pronoun so I don't have to change my appearance too much, but at least have people acknowledge that my identity isn't strictly just male or just female.

 

In terms of trying out a new name/pronouns, there's a thread for that, titled something like "Test your name/pronouns here!" I'm just too lazy to get the link. Just thought I'd mention its existence, if that would help.

 

Not sure if this helps, but I think I feel something similar. I love being a girl - I love skirts and boho style (I realise this immediately contradicts your position, but bear with me) - but I get urges to dress masculine. I love wearing guy clothes too, even though usually I see the clothes as incredibly plain and boring (I like patterns and colours, and all things bright). But I just love dressing as a guy, and feel more masculine doing so. Being misgendered used to bother me a lot, but now I kind of feel a little apathetic about it - I spent the entirety of last week in cross-dress for art research, and I felt like I just kind of came to accept most people are used to called me "her" or by my female name.

I also looked at genderfluid as a label, but it doesn't feel quite right. Tried just "cross-dresser", too, which didn't seem to fit. I'm currently looking at demifluid, with the main mix being demiboy and female, but still I'm not sure myself. I've come to the point where I'm just rolling with "Gender questioning until further notice".

Sorry if that isn't much help.

 

I vary day to day. Sometimes I'm absolutely fine being called my female name and somedays every use of the word she makes me uncomfortable. I've been playing around with agender and genderfluid and haven't really come to a decision yet. What I find helps me know if a label fits me properly is repeating it over and over in my head and everyday life. Whenever I have a change in how I feel towards my gender I'll think of the words and see if they match up.