How do I bring up the possibility of me being transgender?

Something I found that is claimed by those who deny those being transgender, is that they just hate their gender. For example, a woman knows she is a woman, but just hates being one. Maybe she'll try to be a boy by dressing like one, attempting to look more like one, but just knows deep down, that no matter how hard she tries, she'll still be a woman, and I have actually known this has happened. She isn't transgender, she just doesn't like being a woman, maybe for some reason, it isn't beneficial to her or hinders her for whatever reason. Coming from a male who does apparently "hates their gender", I do feel that doesn't automatically invalidate me from possibly being transgender. But... just bringing up the possibility (not coming out as transgender, just the possibility), to maybe go in to see a doctor to see if I truly do have gender dysphoria... I am worried that I will be just labeled as hating my gender. I always got pushed to be a "hardcore man" by my father, and I was always pushed to be more masculine, despite me drifting more towards the feminine route, I was "forced" to go the other way. So I'm really worried what people will think. Unlike some people, I don't really drop many hints except for my more feminine voice I can't help, or me being more comfortable with females than most guys are (like I can play that "girlfriend" sort of role), but it's pretty subtle, and outside of that, nothing. While people have pointed out my femininity and seem to be fine with it, I am occasionally teased for it. Plus, having social anxiety doesn't help.

And the main person I feel I can trust talking about it to... I don't think she'll even care. Let's set aside the fact I have romantic feelings for her, the friendship doesn't feel very mutual. I have to go out of my way to talk to her, but when I do, and we get talking, we get along so well, and I do sense a bit of sincerity in her at those moments. But, besides her, I really don't have anyone in my life to talk to about this. I've never had best friends or anything of the sort. Any advice on what to do? I just feel without anyone to support me, I'm just stuck.

Edit: I see I might have typed this in the wrong section, but I don't see me being able to change that.

 

Thank you for the response, but I wasn't going to strictly say I was transgender, but maybe just say that I'm concerned and need to see a doctor of some sort.