I kind of feel like I'm gradually becoming less of a girl. When I first started questioning my gender, I thought I was mostly a girl and didn't have any dysphoria. But now, somedays I feel almost like a trans guy. I do have a little bit of dysphoria, and I seem to be getting more social dysphoria. It's interesting because some people were born the gender they currently are. Certainly not me!
You're part of the world's diversity. Which we should all cherish. Is it possible to become less of a girl and not simultaneously become more of a guy? What does it seem like to you?
The same thing happened to me over the course of a few years. When I first started questioning my gender I didn't have a lot of dysphoria, but I'm flat- chested and I have really short hair so I didn't look that different from my cis- male friends until they started getting facial hair. I started out thinking I was genderfluid and ended up realizing that I'm a trans guy. Just go with what feels right, that's my advice.
This happened to me too. I think that a lot of it has to do with the fact that we become more aware of ourselves and our feelings throughout the questioning process.
