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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by kawaiipotato1, Mar 18, 2017.

  1. kawaiipotato1

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    I'm so confused. I'm biologically female and I wear makeup (idk if that relates to anything) but I don't feel female. I wear boys clothes and I usually use he/him pronouns. I don't know if there's something wrong with me. I use some girl things but I mostly act like a boy. I've had a conflicting fight with myself to find out who I really am because I don't feel right not knowing who I am and what to do if I don't feel right.
    I've never really gravitated towards 'girly' things, but then I had a thought that maybe I'm just a tomboy and I just don't want to admit it. But I don't like being called a she...Is this normal? Is there anything I should research to see if there is any explanation for what I feel.
    I try to make myself look more like a boy, and when I look in the mirror and see my female body I just don't feel right. Like I don't belong in my own body.
    If there is anyone that has the same problem then please tell me what to do..It's making me so stressed.

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  2. Worker Bee

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    Hey there. Have you ever thought that you want to be a man? If so you might be trans. Otherwise you may possibly be agender.

    I recently realised I was agender after feeling uncomfortable in my body for many years. I'm biologically female which bothered me from a young age without knowing why. I have always worn boys or mens clothes as well as mens scents. However I know I do not want to physically change to a man.

    After finally allowing myself to think about it I realised I actually do not identify with any gender at all. I looked on the internet and discovered the word agender and have felt better within myself since.

    I hope you find the answers you are looking for