I am starting to come out to a few more people, one at a time. Now I'm getting to the stage where I want people to start using my new name and pronouns in a few societies I go to. I'm sure they will all be accepting (one of them already has a few trans/genderqueer people who are out and there are no problems) but I worry about this information going outside these circles. My brother is in the same city as me for university, and for very strange reasons if one of my tutors knows it could get to part of my family that I don't want to be told yet. I'm incredibly scared to tell anyone, but I'm not sure how to go about it.
I'm stuck in the same situation, man :/ I can't socially transition until my grandparents know. I think the best solution would be to just come out to them and get that over with. It's better that then having them find out secondhand.
