Feeling confused about my sexuality after realizing that I'm trans

Maybe you're a straight guy who happened to fall in love with a transguy. Or maybe you're just a human.

I know it's probably not what you want to hear, but I wouldn't get too caught up on labels. Have you talked to your boyfriend? He might be going through the same thing.

This video might help you: Pansexual - YouTube

 

yeah, I hear this issue loud and clear. hits close to home. this is why I use queer for my sexual orientation.

the reality is, if you throw the multitude of gender identities and gender expressions into the mix, all of our words for sexual orientation don't really cut it anymore.

pansexual is a good one but doesn't particularly feel right to me, personally. could be good for you though, if you're feelin' it.

labels are meant to describe not to confine, so if you find that you're straining against the ones you're using, there will always be ones that fit better. even if we have to invent more to do it.

 

I wholeheartedly agree with the previous posts, but, I know it can be confusing trying to figure out what your orientation is rather than the label.

 

You are a man. Straight men like women. Gay men like men. Bisexual men like both... you see where I'm going with this. Thats terminology for you. As for whether or not you are bisexual because you're dating a guy, I can't tell you. Are you attracted to other men, or just this one?

 

Then its likely that you're straight or mostly straight. But don't let that put you off the relationship.