For my 21st birthday, I'll be going on a 4 night trip to Seattle, Washington, but it's also for me to hang out with an agender friend and work on finding myself. I want to try dressing in skirts, kilts, and a bit more feminine fashions, but I'm anxious over the fact I have short, masculine hair, and I'm only starting a social transition, yet I want to be seen as female. Dysphoria, why are you such a pain? Any advice, guys and gals? Should I just be myself and not worry about how I appear?