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bi-gendered?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Jordane, Jun 30, 2013.

  1. Jordane

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    I was wondering what are the possiblities I could be bi-gendered let me tell you My story.

    When I was younger I wanted to be a girl, I hung out with the Girls and even once told my grandma I wish I was a girl. Sometimes people would have a hard time figuring out if i was a girl or a boy and I've even been asked that before. I don't want to become a transexual not because I see anything wrong with them, but because it's not for me. I have always however identified with both genders. I feel like I can take on both characters and I don't have a problem with people seeing me one way or the other.
     
  2. Just Jess

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    Hi Jordane!

    It sounds like you definitely could be. Not everyone that has a gender mismatch decides they need to transition medically, so don't feel like there's any bar you have to clear.

    There are a lot of people that feel like they're both, neither, or something else. It's a really hard thing to explain to people that have never felt a mismatch but I can totally get where you are coming from.

    Just be you and do what it takes to make life make sense for you :slight_smile: I know it's probably not easy because gender lines are pretty hard to cross. But it sounds like you are a bold person who doesn't really play to other people's perceptions anyway.

    I think it's just as natural as my identity too. You know there are some animals that spend time as one sex, and then mother nature kicks in and turns them into the other sex? Clownfish are one of those animals.
     
  3. Unknown5

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    Thats Really similar to what I feel. But I have been terrified to accept that about myself.

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  4. Jordane

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    Thank you both for your answers! I really do think that i'm Bi-gendered and I see nothing wrong with it! Thanks again for answering.
     
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    Out of curiosity, Jordane, do you present yourself more as a male or as a female? Because your profile says male gender and gay orientation. How do your boyfriends feel about your duel genders?
     
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    try crossdressing.
     
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    I feel pretty bigender actually. It's a legit experience.

    I recommend crossdressing, because it's awesome and lets you play with gender.