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Staying in a foreign city... solo gaybar trip?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by srslywtf, Aug 2, 2013.

  1. srslywtf

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    I'm staying in a new city tonight as a stopover on a long drive, I'm thinking about hitting up the gaybar here as I'm too scared to go to the one in my own city!

    Its only a little town, but it has a dedicated place!

    Ill go in for a drink and maybe run away, but hey.. wish me luck? :icon_bigg
     
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    Haha! A quick adventure begins! I am kind of jealous...

    Good luck! Just don't do anything stupid though :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I've been in gay bars a few times and every time far away from home. There's a lot to be said for anonimity :slight_smile: Sometimes you wanna go where not a soul knows your name Cheers! :grin: Have fun.
     
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    Sooo i chickened out... BUT! To make up i got a new phone, capable of running all 'those' apps... so far its vvveeery interesting!
     
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    I met up with a guy in a country town I was staying in last night :slight_smile:

    Nothing suss, just hung out, he showed me around. I am very into this particular app.
     
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    I see what you did there.
     
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    Just so we're clear, there's a reason the censor on app/site names exists - and it's not so you can try to bypass it.

    Be respectful of it, please. If you have concerns about it, feel free to discuss it with the staff.
     
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    Funny. On a long road trip, I went into one for the first time. It was no big deal. Being in a more conservative part of the country, the only thing that worried me was getting to and from my parked car at a late hour. That's a valid concern. Anyway, I went in, had a few Sprites, struck up a few conversations, and then some - after that. Did I feel bad about it, or cheapened by it, or even guilty? No. I think most people go through a "strike while the iron's hot" stage. It's not a judgment one way or the other. A few years earlier, I would have never thought I would do that.