My guy crush knewed that I'm into him because I wrote something at the back of his notebook in Geometry... Written: "I really love you my gaydar tells me "we can" be together." I was shocked when his bestfriend told me that "Dude,were you the ones who wrote that statement at the back of my bestfriend's geometry notebook? At first I lied but since I trust him (he knows im bi) I told him the truth and said "Yeah I really wrote that because I can't stop worrying a lot for him and I just want to help him all the time and I think of him everytime I can't deny the fact that I really like your bestfriend." His bestfriend actually knows my plans for my crush his really quite supportive for me because he isn't homophobic and his the first person I came out to. His that kind of friend that I can trust like this guy who posted this thread ---> http://emptyclosets.com/forum/coming-out-advice/96608-i-asked-my-roommate-if-hes-gay.html I'm currently 3rd year HS(Grade 9 for other countries) I only got 1 year left before I leave our school and go into college.... I know there's still 1-2 more years before we reach February 2015 of being a 4th yr HS student. But I'm really planning to kiss him in our last prominade soon...He started to go and drift away from me ever since he knewed that I had a crush on him. I wanna know your opinions for these things guys and a few helpful advices. :smilewave
I'd suggest talking to the guy and help calm things. Maybe he doesn't know how to act around you now that he knows you like him. At the same time though you should respect how he feels so to avoid any more drifting. If he keeps ignoring you, you could ask his best friend to talk to him a bit. From what you said, it seems like he is a vey supportive and trustworthy friend!
Is he even gay? If he is not than there isn't much advice to give. You can't force him into doing anything with you and it might explain why nothing has progressed. Maybe talk to him to even find out if he is interested in guys. I don't think sneaking messages into someones notebook is the way to approach this kind of situation.
My gaydar is telling me his in his closet... Well his really dirty... Like when we talk about lesbian and straight porn he use to giggle on the guy next to him... Kinda weird.. :X I also remember the time when he was rubbing the dick of our classmate :X
I remember one time I had this friend of mine, and we used to hang out a lot (a girl) and she ended up hearing a rumour I liked her (at the time I knew I was gay but not out) so she ended up completely avoiding me because she thought I liked her. Some people just don't know how to act when someone likes them. Only last year, a year or two after she completely stopped talking to me, did she start talking to me again. I think you should talk to him, and tell him you can be friends if he wants, and possibly more if he is comfortable. Don't come on too strong and say if he wants to be friends it is fine, and if he wants you to leave just do it. Give him time to think it out, if something happens wonderful, if not you just can't force these things
