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Confused about Romantic Orientation

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by person57, Aug 19, 2013.

  1. person57

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    I don't know if I'm heteromantic or biromantic. When I'm in a romantic relationship with a girl, I love her for who she is, I love to cuddle with her, hug her, and kiss her, but I was never interested in any sexual acts with her. If I were in a romantic relationship with a guy, I know for sure I would love him for his looks, I'd love to kiss him, hug him, and cuddle with him, but I don't know if I'd like him for who he is, I would love him if he was nice, he had an awesome personality, and if we had a lot in common, but he would also have to look kinda hot. To be in a romantic relationship with a girl, she doesn't have to look hot, her looks wouldn't really matter to me. So what is my romantic orientation?
     
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    Since your just 14, I would say it is too early to tell unfortunately. There is so much that is going to happen to you in the next 7, 8 years. I know it isn't the answer you are looking for, but to be honest there isn't one right now. Just enjoy being young.
     
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    You never know until you try. And I can attest to the fact that most people, at 14 at least, are insufferable. No offense to you of course. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Thanks for the advice!