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advice please

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Maddi, Aug 20, 2013.

  1. Maddi

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    i been in a relationship for coming up a year now and i find myself more confused now than when we first got together. when we first started seeing each other she was more not possessive but aware what i was doing. now she says what i do is none of her business but shes part of my life so in some way it is her business. if she is no longer taking an interest does it mean the relationship is coming to end
     
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    Hmmm To me it sounds like you've reached the stage where she feels secure enough in the relationship to let you be independent. I wouldn't worry about it too much however maybe you can communicate this worry with them. :slight_smile:
     
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    ^ I couldn't have said it better myself.
     
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    A great relationship doesn't take two incomplete people and make them complete (only when they're together). It takes two complete people and makes them even better...but they still can operate independent of each other.

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