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Should I trust them?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Jojo1189, Aug 21, 2013.

  1. Jojo1189

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    Location:
    Dublin, Ireland
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Sexual Orientation:
    Straight but curious
    Me and my friend were planning on going to the LGBT club in school. I'm bisexual, so I have got an excuse to go anyway, and so does my friend, but I was wondering if I should trust them with my gender identity. Like, as far as I know, they can't just out us if we tell them. And I'm really scared and lost right now about gender. I know what I am, I'm just really scared and I just feel like I need that sort of older person who knows and understands. I'm not sure though. Should I trust the people, or should I keep it secret?
     
  2. Nick07

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    hi,
    If you are scared, don't share it with people you don't know well. Get to know them better and try o become friends first.
     
  3. Data

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    Yup, *Arnold Schwarzenegger* "First, I would just like to get to know you."

    Don't tell anyone who you don't trust if you're scared that they can't keep a secret.

    You can leave it at Bisexuality initially and if it turns out they're a great group who are supportive and trustworthy, then you can re-evaluate revealing you gender identity to them!