Me and my friend were planning on going to the LGBT club in school. I'm bisexual, so I have got an excuse to go anyway, and so does my friend, but I was wondering if I should trust them with my gender identity. Like, as far as I know, they can't just out us if we tell them. And I'm really scared and lost right now about gender. I know what I am, I'm just really scared and I just feel like I need that sort of older person who knows and understands. I'm not sure though. Should I trust the people, or should I keep it secret?
hi, If you are scared, don't share it with people you don't know well. Get to know them better and try o become friends first.
Yup, *Arnold Schwarzenegger* "First, I would just like to get to know you." Don't tell anyone who you don't trust if you're scared that they can't keep a secret. You can leave it at Bisexuality initially and if it turns out they're a great group who are supportive and trustworthy, then you can re-evaluate revealing you gender identity to them!