hi there. i need your help. i have 17 years old and i'm in love with other girl who is 21. she works for my parents for a long time, but recently i discovered that she looks at me and tries to talk to me. i'm bi, but i don't know about her sexual orientation. what i know is that this girl hasn't a boyfriend and when other boys flirt with her, she refuses him. she saw me one time when i was holding my ex-boyfriend by the hand and she looked at me a little bit sad.. i don't know what to do, becouse i don't know if she is lesbian and i don't know how to find out. if i find that she is a lesbian, i will absolutely make the first step. thanks
Are you friends with her at all? Maybe start approaching her on a friendship only level and see where it takes you...
No, we aren't friends at all. It's a little bit hard becouse as i said, she works for my parents. But i really feel something between us. And the fact that she doesn't have a boyfriend and refuses all the boys makes me to believe that she is a lesbian. But this thing isn't sure.